Monday, October 16, 2017

make six rules to make people like me.

Six rules that make people like me. 



Become genuinely interested in other people. It is important to become '' genuinely interested in other people, '' because if you do that's how you can become friends with others. Also, if you listen to them when having a conversation with them , when it comes to when you want to have a conversation with others , they will listen to you. Why? Because you are interested in others and then others are interested in you. 


Smile. Smile because you only live once. It is very important for you to have a smile when you present yourself to others. Also, it is important to smile because you give the people an important title of you and you want others to think good of you. A smile represents how you are. Make sure to always be yourself wanting to do or be someone. Smiling is very important because it can lead to a good image of you. Smile at life. Smile at you. 
 Remember Names. Remembering names is very important to a person because you remembering their name, makes them feel so special. Also, by you remembering their name, they already have something nice to say about you, and that of course will make you feel special. When somebody remembers your name, its because you once spoke good about something and they were interested in you or the topic. This is great because you are most likely to become well known as a good person because that other  spoke good about your name. This is why it's great for somebody to remember you name or let someone remember it; you can always get somebody interested in you and smile about you. 


Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. To be a good listener you need to focus on them. Meaning you need to find interest with them because then other will find interest in you and that is very important. Another thing that can make you a good listener is to keep the conversation going when interested because that can make you a great friend or person in the future. How? Because you start meeting people who actually care. Let them talk about themselves when you meet someone, that's the only way you'll get to know the person in reality.  you get to see how they are and, what they like, their vibe, etc. It is very important to encourage somebody to be themselves when they meet other because once they know them by the tip of their hand and change they are not going to like the way you are.  It is also very important to like yourself and listen to what your heart had to say sometimes because it is good for you.
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Talk in terms of the other man's interest. For you to be able to relate with other people you talk to, you need to have them same way of thinking. that's the only way you are going to get know the person. Also, by asking you will get to know the person and what is their interest. Any topic that they mention to you, keep the conversation open and let them express what they treasure the most. Tell them what you treasure the most. It is very important to let them take you seriously and you to them. 

Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely. making others feel important s very important because you make them feel welcomed. Sometimes you do not know what goes on at home and you bring them down without even knowing it. So it is very important to make somebody feel welcomed and important because no matter what you bring their happiness out. Also, by doing this you make others feel comfort and that is the only way you can see the true self of others.  Another way can be doing things for them like helping out and don't brag it back what you did because can make discomfort between the relationship and then that'll make you not sincere. Always do things with sincere and you'll make a good friend. 



reflection: The six rules of making others like you has made a difference in my life for the past week in a half. How? Why? Because I make people feel welcomed and loved and honestly that is all you have to do when others want to talk about an interest they have. All people want is for others to hear what they are interested in. Having an interest in others when they that is very important. For example, my mom always has something to tell me such as an interests she has or etc., but I tend to listen because that is the only way you can win someone's loyalty and honesty. Also, you see their true and real side of them which can make someone feel happy about you. Always being a good listener can get you to good paths in life. Why? because if you listen to others, others will listen to you. That is very important. Smile when meeting someone, smile when someone is talking positively around you or to you, smile when somebody says they have interest to your story because that can leave a good title to your person. Good smiles, good vibes. 








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